SoCal Suburbia

Group Dynamics...?

Oof. I talk too loud, no way around it. My birthday is coming up in three weeks or so, so I've been planning the party- a murder mystery party, actually. And I was talking to my best friend about it- about what character she was going to be, and all sorts of stuff.

Meanwhile, I'd been quite uncomfortable with another 'friend' of mine lately, for various reasons, so I'd decided not to invite her. Then the other day in P.E., I totally blew up at her, so yesterday I had to apologize, and she decided we were best friends. Which we aren't. Have never been. Will never be.

This wouldn't have been too horrible if not for the fact that she had overheard me talking to the first friend about my party. And, moments after she decided she was my best friend, she decided she was invited to my party. And since it's a murder mystery party, there's a limit to how many people I can invite, and I'd already fulfilled this limit.

So now I have to uninvite someone I actually wanted to come, and invite this girl who I did not want to come.

Brilliant. Just brilliant.

posted by Lucy @ 6:02 PM